For last year’s words belong to last year’s language
And next year’s words await another voice.
T.S. Eliot
theres a difference between “my bf/gf wont let me” and “my bf/gf would be hurt if i did this so out of consideration for their feelings im going to choose not to”
Every time you
tell your daughter
you yell at her
out of love
you teach her to confuse
anger with kindness
which seems like a good idea
till she grows up to
trust men who hurt her
cause they look so much
like you.
—
Rupi Kaur, Milk and Honey (via h-o-r-n-g-r-y)